Psychological and Social Problems

QUESTION: Sir one of my relative /frend said she is practical n it is gud.but im emotional it is bad.my question if Allah doesnt like emotion or make the world worthy of being emotion then why He made me dis way dat i get emotional n hurt?

21 Mar

ANSWER: This is your test to change yourself and improve your handling of things. When you are hungry, you don’t complain: why did Allah create us needing food! You simply go and make food and eat. Likewise, you need to condition yourself not to be emotional and to be realistic in dealing with others and […]

QUESTION: I’ve been preparing for entry test from past 6 months but im seriously so much confused stressed and depressed i dont know what to do i cant even focus on my studies and another life chores also my parents expect so much from me plz give me some advice so my heart feel ease..

Psychological and Social Problems

06 Mar

ANSWER: You should trust Allah and have content of whatever Allah decrees upon you as you have done your best by studying hard. Think positive of Allah and make a lot of duaa and you will do well in Sha Allah

QUESTION: I don’t wish to marry. I will never marry & do sx with any woman (in this world). Because I don’t want because of me doing sx & human produces & those humans suffer in this world such harsh trials & also in the hereafter in so many stages even I don’t know my progeny will burn in hell or not. So I won’t marry. Is there in shirk/kufr in this planning/ thinking?

Pedagogy education and upbringing, Psychological and Social Problems

10 Jan

ANSWER: This is thinking negative in Allah and an indication that such a person has mental problems and challenges in thinking! Why doesn’t he think positively by believing that Allah will make out of his offspring Imams and leaders of the Muslims and scientists who would cure illnesses and bring happiness to humanity?

QUESTION: Sheikh, I just want to know that what Islam says about this worldy studies like physics, chemistry and etc because it burdens a lot and causes depression and tension, anxiety…. Is it compulsory to have 95 % marks, if you couldn’t have that much ability

Jobs, Psychological and Social Problems

03 Oct

ANSWER: This depends on what you want to do in life and your preference. Not all people are cut for scientific subjects. You are not obliged in Islam to excel in your worldly studies but a Muslim is expected to be the best in what he does. If you don’t like such subjects, choose others […]

QUESTION: If marriage is not written in a girls fate how to have patience while everyone is enjoying with their spouses what will be her reward in akhriah

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

30 Sep

ANSWER: How does she know what is written for her? She has no other choice but to be patient and hope for the best and if this doesn’t happen, she will be compensated handsomely on the day of judgment.

Is it best for someone with emotional/mental issues that just prefers being alone and keeping everything to themselves to not make friends or should they make friends so to curb shaytaans trap as said in the hadith about shaytaan targettibg the one that’s alone?

Psychological and Social Problems, Psychological Problems

12 Aug

ANSWER: This is up to their own preference. People with friends are better than people who are alone and don’t have others to remind them or teach them.

Sheikh when i do wudu and rub my fingers through the beard, non muslims around me stare at me and i get uncomfortable because of that. So if i do it in a way that they don’t stare at me, is it shirk?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Psychological and Social Problems

23 Jul

ANSWER: This is not shirk however, it may be a weakness of Islam. Be proud of your Islam and make wudu normally! Who cares who is watching or what they say? When they walk nude, do they care of what you think of them?

I face many obstacles whenever i want to get something done i sometimes get it but after a lot of wait anxiety stress tireless efforts especially humiliation sometimes i have to settle for less than normal Eg: salary.On the other hand my colleagues & friends has no problem may it be job marriage or exam even every small thing becomes a headache for me & i suffer a lot. Is Allah angry with me?

Psychological and Social Problems

22 Jun

ANSWER: I can’t tell whether Allah is angry with you or not as this is only with Him! Your friends might be more appreciative of what Allah has given them and grateful than you! Allah is testing you like He tests everyone else and some people pass while others fail the test, sadly!

Sheikh, I live in a country where situations for Muslims are really bad and Muslim women are getting open rape threats. Can a woman commit suicide if she’s in a situation where she could be raped ?? Any woman would choose to die rather than losing her dignity..

Halal/Haram Matters, Psychological and Social Problems

11 May

ANSWER: No, this is not permissible. She must fight and resist with all her might even if this leads her to be killed but not to kill herself. Women must take self defence classes, not go alone to unsafe places and always commute in groups, always be properly dressed in islamic hijab when going out […]

Actually i need your advise on how to solve my trauma of losing $7k for wedding payment. Which once in a while triggered me to get angry, talking to myself about unsatisfied issues, curse all the past and even i make du’a to allah to put all the cruel people that already ruin my life into hellfire.Where i already fork out almost $7k for 45% wedding payment. In the end we got broke off because my ex future can’t afford to proceed with another 55% of payment. And my 45% payment can’t be refund an

Fiqh of Marriage, Psychological and Social Problems

23 Apr

ANSWER: I don’t know! You can sit and weep for the rest of your life over this and nothing will change and the money won’t come back and everyone involved are living their lives and enjoying it while you are depressed and sad! Or you can be grateful that the marriage didn’t take place and […]

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