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Your wife should understand that these are your parents and that you love them and they can come and stay for a few days. It’s not as if she has to live with them forever! You have a right to host them for 10 days without her complaining and she can stay out of their way and faces if she doesn’t want to meet them. 

QUESTION: I’m living abroad with my wife and son. My parents wants to visit us for 10 days, but my wife doesn’t like them coming as last time they came before 2 years and stayed for 3 months, there was misunderstanding between my wife and mother. As my mom keeps on nagging my wife even for small things. I’m stuck in between and don’t know what to do. Please advise

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QUESTION: There is a girl whom i really respect because of her aqida and knowledge. She strictly follow the manhaj of alhul sunnah wal jama’a and we also follow the same scholars. I really want to marry her but the only thing is that she doesn’t cover her hair. What is your advise regarding this? Because i think maybe i can advise her and tell her to wear it when doing the nikkah or after and she could list
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QUESTION: My husband’s family didn’t let us be with him. He settled a separate setup for us near his parents but His mother threw us out of it. Now he will not keep us and not even giving money for my children expenditure if I will not go back. I want to tell you his mother had already done this 4 times before I requested my husband to move somewhere he denied. Nd said My mother is more imp. Plz guide me