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Having such feelings is natural. What is not permissible is to commit sin in the process such as looking without lowering the gaze, communicating, socializing or being around such a person. This is totally prohibited.

QUESTION: Are we sinful for having feelings for someone? as long as we are not in any kind of contact and we do not act upon it in any way? It is not possible for me to marry tht person.

Pre-Marital Relations | May 18, 2023 11:48 am
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QUESTION: I had a completely platonic relationship with a girl who was my bestfriend. Because I was focusing more on my deen, I understood that we couldnt be friends and I told her about it. We were totally just friends but I feared that I would be sinful for this as some of our conversations included talking and encouraging haram stuff like haram relationships. Would this be a just reason to leave her?
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QUESTION: My fiancé studies in a freemixing university and gets angry when I tell her not to freemix and not to upload pictures with boys as audience. I love her very much and want to marry her. Shaykh, I’m very depressed as I don’t want her to freemix. What to do Shaykh ? My heart breaks when boys see her but I love her more than anything except my mother.