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No problem in this as long as they do not masturbate.

QUESTION: Can a husband and wife talk about physical intimacy or sexual desires through msgs when they are apart,like saying I’ll do this to you or we’ll do that to express their longing and fullfil emotional and physical desires through words?

Fiqh of Marriage, Masturbation | October 22, 2025 6:50 am
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QUESTION: Sheikh, we want to arrange our waliemah among close family members in a restaurant. We managed to get a restaurant that has seperate rooms for males and females. However, the working staff, who will serve the food, will be mixed. I.e., it is possible that a male staff might have to serve the food in the womens section. Is this allowed?
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QUESTION: If a wife willingly contributes her own income towards household expenses for some years, and later she decides not to spend from her income anymore, is it permissible in Islam for her to ask her husband to return the money she had spent before? Would it be considered haram for her to ask for it back?