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You must not lie as this is haram in Islam. 

Try to get a real job and relocate and this way you won’t need to lie

QUESTION: Me and my wife are living in a joint family with my parents. They are very nice to her but very restrictive. We need their permission for things like going out or visiting my wifes parents etc. We want to live seperately but I cannot tell my parents this because they will get offended. Can I lie to them and tell that i got a job in a different state and would have to move there along with my wife.

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws, Kind Treatment of Spouses | September 13, 2025 12:26 pm
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QUESTION: My brother in law put his hand on my arm & tried 2 take my cell. I later told him not to slam my bedroom door. He said its his own home. Islamically, is a brothers home his home & his right to come? i dont trust him anymore as he denise grabbing my arm while i had a bruise. Should my husband defend me? or let it pass
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QUESTION: Is this hadees authentic. Question: Taking care of parents and taking care of in laws can give Jannah if they are unhappy you will go to jahannum. ( Even if in laws are abusive).