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No, its not his home, its his brother’s home and you must abide by the proper hijab around him at all times and must not mix with him whatsoever as he is non mahram to you, let alone touch you like this! You must escalate this with your husband and demand that he never enters your home when your husband is not home or do such things like this with you. If your husband doesn’t listen or comply, bring this up with your parents and let them intervene as your husband behavior raises red flags whether he is a real man with jealousy or not!

QUESTION: My brother in law put his hand on my arm & tried 2 take my cell. I later told him not to slam my bedroom door. He said its his own home. Islamically, is a brothers home his home & his right to come? i dont trust him anymore as he denise grabbing my arm while i had a bruise. Should my husband defend me? or let it pass

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | September 8, 2025 1:17 am
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QUESTION: Can I ban my mother-in-law from visiting forever our house due to privacy invasion, comparison, judgment & dictation? Her visits ruin my mental peace, caused me depression. Is it possible to set boundaries, considering my Islamic rights? As islam tells man to give his wife her place.
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QUESTION: Me and my wife are living in a joint family with my parents. They are very nice to her but very restrictive. We need their permission for things like going out or visiting my wifes parents etc. We want to live seperately but I cannot tell my parents this because they will get offended. Can I lie to them and tell that i got a job in a different state and would have to move there along with my wife.