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You must put your foot down and do not agree to this.

If he is as practicing as you say, he should man up and talk to his parents rather than being a mommas boy! Such a negative attitude about what is halal and haram should give you a preview of how life would be with him and his family especially if he is going to make you live with them in a joint family.

QUESTION: There is a marriage proposal for me. He is a good guy, a practicing Muslim, and has good knowledge about Dee. The problem is, our parents want videography for our wedding, but I don’t. Even though the guy knows about it, he didn’t take any step. He said, “I don’t know anything. It’s all up to my family. Whatever they want to do, they will.” What should I do?

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QUESTION: I read from an islamic page about polygamy. from the perspective that the Lawgiver has enjoined it, then what we must do is be content and happy with it. I don’t want my husband to marry second time and make dua for it just it’s my desire or wish I am not stopping him physically this implies I am not content and happy with polygamy Or not?
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QUESTION: My son is 24 yrs and I am getting him married. Problem is that he doesn’t pray regularly, like he prays jumaa and 1-2 prayers a day. Some days no prayer at all. He also has anti islamic views. Can I look for a religious girl (niqaabi) for his marriage? is it ok if I do this? Do I need to tell the girl his prayer status?