ANSWER:

You must not have any communication with her whatsoever as she is still nonmahram to you. 

A real man doesn’t need the approval of his parents when getting married to a practicing woman if he is financially independent. 

As long as you are going to provide her with a separate accommodation, you don’t need your parents consent but it is highly recommended that you deal with them diplomatically. Approach her father if you are serious about marriage.

QUESTION: My engagement got broken after a year due to family issues but we both still love each other and believe we will be good spouses. Should I keep trying for her and think of ways to fix those issues or just leave considering it’s Allah’s will?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family | September 2, 2023 3:20 pm
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QUESTION: My question is I have asked my wife not to do hijab at home when I am at home and when her father is around because I want to see her without hijab. But my wife says she will do it in front of her father as an act of respect because this is what she did as an act of respect. What are your thoughts on this?
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QUESTION: I am a revert for 3 years now and my parents are against Islam. They are constantly saying things like they want to take my children to see Santa or do Christmas stuff (they are babies) or buying them presents for Christmas. I am grateful for gifts however I have been patient and not replying but how can I handle the situation in the most respectful way? They are aware of Islam rule