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You must put your foot down and totally prohibit anyone checking your bedsheet at all, this is absolutely degrading and insulting. 

QUESTION: In my culture when someone is married they give the couples a white wrapper to use on their first night to wipe the blood of the virgin, and the wrapper has to be returned to the relatives. I know it’s not islamic to do so. But to protect my wife’s honor, would it be appropriate to prick my finger and put some blood on the wrapper just to protect my wife from harassment.

Fiqh of Marriage, Kind Treatment of Spouses | October 14, 2022 3:17 am
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QUESTION: In our society, when a man gives money or gifts to his parents, it is appreciated but if a daughter gives her own money that she earned to her parents, in laws usually make an issue about this and call names to such parents on taking gifts from daughters. What is the ruling on this.
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QUESTION: I do not have any job , my husband hardly provides anything for me financially that’s why I cannot do a lot of things I cannot ask even for my essential things from him, even if I ask him to bring something he hardly brings it, as he does not provide me anything financially am I sinful for stealing money from his wallet or drawer in dire need?