QUESTION: I have no father or brother. A married man wants to marry me. I go to the gym and am healthy, while his wife is very slim. When we met, he said I am pretty but must lose weight, then sent me his wife’s photo showing she stays slim. I feel disgusted by this comparison and fear his love is conditional on my body. Advise me like a daughter: should I proceed?
QUESTION: I have no father or brother. A married man wants to marry me. I go to the gym and am healthy, while his wife is very slim. When we met, he said I am pretty but must lose weight, then sent me his wife’s photo showing she stays slim. I feel disgusted by this comparison and fear his love is conditional on my body. Advise me like a daughter: should I proceed?
13Nov
ANSWER:
As a daughter, I say to you, you must fear Allah and not have any contact with this predator!
He must have spoken to hundreds of girls like you before. He is experienced in this it seems.
How would he see your body and know that you are overweight? Are you abiding by the Islamic hijab?
Such a person is playing with you as you seem easy to contact and to attract.
Fear Allah, repent to Him, show sincere remorse and ask Allah for forgiveness.
QUESTION: I have no father or brother. A married man wants to marry me. I go to the gym and am healthy, while his wife is very slim. When we met, he said I am pretty but must lose weight, then sent me his wife’s photo showing she stays slim. I feel disgusted by this comparison and fear his love is conditional on my body. Advise me like a daughter: should I proceed?