ANSWER:

I don’t know! 

When you are 28 years old, what are you waiting for? Every year you delay your marriage, you will be proposed to by a widower or someone who needs a second or 3rd wife or by a divorcee who has 3 children and wants you to take care of them!

If your current suitor checks all boxes, you should not allow satan to give you panic attacks and make you stop this marriage. 

Most women in your age and younger would probably give an arm and leg to be in your shoes and get married. 

This brother is not losing anything if you reject him as the supply is far greater than the demand. He will find a hundred women younger, more beautiful and more committed to Islam than you.

You on the other hand may not get another chance like this, and pardon my bluntness but I had seen this thousands of times and heard women’s cries and regrets for skipping such suitors while it was too late! 

QUESTION: I am a girl 28 years old and now my parents wants me to get married and I also said them okay but as soon the things got final I dont wanna marry and I am under extreme pressure now. I have been praying 5 times and tahajud too and went to umrah as well and discuss this to Allah as well but I feel not ready at all. I just wanna ask you am I sinful?

Fiqh of Marriage |