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Getting married is completing half of your deen therefore marriage is an act of worship that you should consider if you want to please Allah azza wa jal. 

As for being afraid, there are so many successful marriages by the Grace of Allah that far exceed failed ones! Therefore, be positive and hope the best from Allah.

QUESTION: I am 26 years old and I am not married yet. Everybody wants a modern girl butI am not modern as per today’s standards and even I am short too. The way divorces are happening these days, I am afraid to even get married.Due to my hormonal changes, I am interested in marriage but I am afraid and not interested of being physical, that is why I am afraid of getting married, so what should I do?

Fiqh of Marriage | December 13, 2024 1:10 pm
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QUESTION: How do I ask about my potential wife’s libido? It is not something I can ask her directly, nor is it something that I can ask in front of her wali without making things awkward. It is important to ask about it, because if she doesn’t have a high libido, but the husband does, it could lead to problems between the two in the future.
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QUESTION: I want to marry a guy but my parents are not agree because he belongs to karachi and i am from islambad. And distance is alot b/w two cities. And secondly he does not earn yet. But Allah says if you like someone marry them and Allah will make them ghani (rich) . Isnt it wrong to just reject it because of just these reasons?