ANSWER:

Such a person is an irresponsible husband and father and should be ashamed of himself 

Real men don’t behave like children! 

QUESTION: Can a husband ignore his responsibility to his wife and childrens over a small argument with his wife? He did not return home for days & sometimes weeks. No calls or msgs to check on us also. Happened a few times already. He will leave the house as and when he is not happy. Is this allowed in islam?