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If this disobedience is in halal things that they want or need and it has no harm on you, yes, this is Uquq.

QUESTION: Anas ibn Malik reported that the Prophet ﷺ said: “Two deeds are quickly punished in this world: transgression and disobedience to parents.” Does every act of disobedience to parents count as ʿuqūq al-wālidayn, even if it causes them no harm or distress?

Fiqh of the family | October 13, 2026 12:22 am
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QUESTION: I know the best form of charity one can do is to spend on one’s family. In this regard, can I give my younger sister a fixed amount from my salary every month, like pocket money? Will that count as charity? Because almost all the beggars I find outside are like professional beggars. Please advise.