ANSWER:

If you wanted her to expose their relationship to her parents before proposing, this is prohibited and immodest! 

Who in his right mind would tell a girl to expose herself like this to her parents?

Allah has concealed their sin and you want to expose it?

QUESTION: My son loved a girl and wanted to marry her. As a mother, I agreed at first because I wanted his happiness. Later, I learned the girl planned to hide their relationship from her parents to make it seem like an arranged marriage.I disagreed with that, & since then, my son has spoken harshly, blaming me for ruining his life. Was I wrong to stop their marriage?

Fiqh of Marriage, Fiqh of the family | October 19, 2025 2:39 pm
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QUESTION: Sheikh, we want to arrange our waliemah among close family members in a restaurant. We managed to get a restaurant that has seperate rooms for males and females. However, the working staff, who will serve the food, will be mixed. I.e., it is possible that a male staff might have to serve the food in the womens section. Is this allowed?