ANSWER:

You must talk to your mother or sisters and try to convince them for nikah but if your father doesn’t agree then you should wait.

Meanwhile, its totally prohibited for you to be in contact with your fiance as you both are still non mahram to each other.

QUESTION: We’re 21 and engaged for 3 years. We want to do Nikah now and Rukhsati later to avoid haram, as he doesn’t yet have a job. But our families refuse, fearing villagers will assume something wrong happened and mock us. How can we make our family understand?