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Before asking about her weight and what you want and what you don’t want, you need to become a real Muslim first and ask what Allah wants from you!

It is totally prohibited in Islam to talk to girls and befriend them like this and Allah hates this and is angry with you for doing this. 

You need to block this girl and stop all kinds of communication if you want to continue to be a good Muslim. Once you are at an age that allows you to get married and you are financially capable of taking care of your wife, only then you can think of girls and getting engaged. 

QUESTION: Skeikh I (14) had a question I really like this girl (14) and she is happy when she starves herself and I don’t want her to do that but she has body imaging issues I heard a lecture from another mufti (mufti Menk) he said if you partner is happy with something the other one should engage with that person skeikh should I engage with her I want her to eat she lost 4kg I want her to eat

Pre-Marital Relations | August 8, 2023 4:37 pm
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QUESTION: I’m dealing with emotional battles everyday. I’m trying to quit on haram things but my heart is attached to a non mehram who is not even willing to marry me. But still I’m obsessed over him cus he lied to me that he’ll marry me but later on refused.
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QUESTION: Sheikh, I was in a Haram relationship for 4 years and now I’m out of it after my proposal for nikkah was rejected by her, I was not a practicing Muslim now I’m practicing Islam , my main concern is I’m left with gifts from her such as clothes etc what do I do of them as I don’t want to reach out to her for returning them.