ANSWER:

Having feelings for someone who is not a potential suitor is illogical as thousands of women lost good proposals due to such mirage!

A bird in hand is better than 10 on the tree.

Go ahead with this good proposal that checks all boxes instead of depending on something that is not certain. 

QUESTION: Sheikh is it bad if I get a proposal from a person of deen and Khuluq and reject because I have feelings for someone else? Should I just accept that proposal or should I not because it’s unfair to impose personal issues onto a new person who is good. I feel stuck.

Fiqh of Marriage | May 1, 2023 4:21 pm
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QUESTION: I dont love my husband, this is something I felt bfor marriage,due to fam pressure i had to. But im worried abt my hearafter cuz wen a wife dosent obey his husband she will enter jahannam so I’m worried im making Allah upset n praying to him to get me out of this marriage cuz I dont want my Iman to shake.im a practicing Muslimah im praying to Allah to take us apart so I dont cont sining
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QUESTION: My relatives have chosen a woman for my nikah. After hearing good things about her, I have proposed. (I have yet to see her face). In sha Allah, After Ramadan, I with my family will go to meet my supposed spouse for the interview. My question is that can I talk to her in private with the permission of her Wali?