ANSWER:

Of course not!

You must mend all what is broken between you and her and apologize and seek her forgiveness 

It is too obvious that you have not moved on but rather you want to bury the fire under the ashes but this won’t help you on the day of judgment as you won’t be admitted to paradise if you don’t be dutiful, respectful and obedient to your mother. 

Not calling her to your wedding is like insulting her in front of all of your own family and your in laws. 

QUESTION: My mother is very evil unfortunately and tries to do everything she can to hurt me because old personal issues we had that I moved on from and she didn’t. I’m afraid if I invite her to my wedding that she would try to sabotage it or embarrass me or my in-laws. Can I choose not to invite her?

Fiqh of the family | March 17, 2025 1:14 am
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QUESTION: Where does it say in the Qur’an and authentic ahadeeth that we cannot defend ourselves or clarify things against our parents, if/when THEY are wrong? You said to admit and say “I am wrong”, even when we are right. Wouldn’t that be lying as well? I understand not disrespecting part but where do you or the scholars get not defending ourselves and just be silent part? Where is the daleel?
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QUESTION: Whenever a relative gives me eidi (money given on Eid) my mother says she wants to keep that money. Is it permissible to keep that money, which was originally given to me?