ANSWER:

Let him go through his fit and keep your distance if you did not do anything wrong to him until he comes around on his own time. When he is in a good mood, you can try to discuss his behaviour with him and to ask him whether this was the way of the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam when dealing with his wives or not! 

QUESTION: My husband has a habit of keeping malice with me for weeks on end, usually after petty arguements. He stops all communication with me except when absolutely necessary (eg. Have you seen my keys?) even when I apologize to make peace he doesn’t stop giving me the cold shoulder – only in his own time. This can go on for several days or

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