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QUESTION: I’m 20 years old, and when I make small mistakes, my mom often says things like, ‘If any other mother were there, they would hit you for doing such things.’ How can I respond to these comments in a way that maintains respect for her while also protecting my emotional well-being?

QUESTION: I’m 20 years old, and when I make small mistakes, my mom often says things like, ‘If any other mother were there, they would hit you for doing such things.’ How can I respond to these comments in a way that maintains respect for her while also protecting my emotional well-being?

QUESTION: I’m 20 years old, and when I make small mistakes, my mom often says things like, ‘If any other mother were there, they would hit you for doing such things.’ How can I respond to these comments in a way that maintains respect for her while also protecting my emotional well-being?

10 Sep

ANSWER:

By standing up and going to her and giving her a kiss while saying: this is why you are the best mother on earth.

QUESTION: Sheikh whenever my mother gets upset even for a small thing she could speak ill towards us, hurtful things. How can we stop her from this? Even if we try to tell her nicely if she is not angry or share to her lectures about this it seems that she never changes or realize that we can be hurt whenever she says negative things.She never apologises to us coz for her she’s our mother.

Fiqh of the family | September 10, 2024 3:30 am