ANSWER:

You are not obliged to spend a penny on him, the house or anything at all. 

Let him man up or kick him out of the house until he is able to pay bills and provide for you. 

Do not give him any cash in his hand nor send mother anything unless you are their sugar mommy! 

You have all the right to file for divorce especially if you don’t have any children because he is not providing for you. This is a legitimate reason for divorce especially if he is lazy and not looking for a job and relying on you to be the man of the house! 

QUESTION: I spend on my husband because he hasn’t had a proper job for 3 years, we got married recently thinking he had got a pay raise but unfortunately his job isn’t paying. He isn’t looking for jobs and also his mother wants us to send money to her frequently so she can pay for her daughters education and go to hotels and pay for her large apartment. Do we have to send to his family when he owes me a lot