ANSWER:

No, you did not sin & what he was asking for was sinful! You did the right thing! He was not a good person to marry and his intentions were not pure. 

May Allah grant you a practicing husband who follows the correct aqeedah and would cherish you.

QUESTION: I prayd realy hard 4 marriage,got proposal.he was practicing muslim,he had condition dat he talks 2 me on phone 2 chek compatiblty.I was not ok wid talkin 2 him on regular basis bcoz if he decides 2 not move forward den I didn’t want 2 sin talking 2 non-mahram.He rejected saying if I can’t talk he can’t move forward.did I sin/upset Allah bcoz Allah sends us opportunities.plz guide

Fiqh of Marriage | April 19, 2025 4:19 am
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QUESTION: I’m in my 40s and have sincerely tried to marry, choosing religious and stable suitors. My only wali, my father, rejects them because he discourages my sunnah lifestyle. He’s not fully practicing, and I fear falling into sin. If he continues to block me unjustly, is it permissible to marry via wali hakim with proper witnesses, possibly overseas to maintain family ties?