ANSWER:

You were wrong to meet her without the presence of her father and to insist on another meeting. This is called dating! 

In Islam you only have one meeting in which the marriage interview is conducted by her father and there is no communication after that

As for the girl, you must move on and find someone who is a practicing muslima

QUESTION: I had sitt down with potential wife and her mother was sitting away from us. After meeting i told her i want to meet her again and she said we can phone each other. I said before we move on i need to meet your father or speak with him.. her family dont want to. They said involve father when we know each other more. Isnt it wrong of her ? Maybe look for another?

Fiqh of Marriage | July 1, 2025 12:16 am
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