ANSWER:

This is not permissible as there’s no pleasing or obedience to anyone at the cost of displeasing and disobedience to Allah! Let them fight few times and after that they will calm down and accept that you don’t participate in such innovations.

QUESTION: I am a girl I am living with my parents and they force me to go in a bidah gathering and if I disobey them my father will fight with mother I didn’t want to go what should I do my father and mother didn’t understand if we tell them this is haram if someone die the firsts 40 day every Friday they make gathering and served food to people so can I go I have no other option

Innovations | September 30, 2026 4:08 am
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QUESTION: Elders tell us to do fixed Tahleel and distribute Quran Juz’ for deceased before 3rd/7th day after death. Is this authentic? If not, what’s ruling on attending? If I refuse, it causes family conflict between father and son. What should I do?