ANSWER:

If they are backbiting, you must change the topic (no need to ask them to change the topic) and if they insist even after this, then you should leave the place.

QUESTION: I’m always sensible,when people around me talk about non-present peopl Question: negativly, even if it’s not directly an insult or with bad intentions. I think everything could possibly hurt the feelings of the one who is talked about. It’s like OCD & difficult for me when I meet with friends&family. There are nearly always people who talk about others shortcomings etc.. Even though everytime I say “change the topic, don’t use negativ words”. Am I always sinful & must go away?