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This can be related to your belief in qadar when you refuse to acknowledge that this was already predestined by Allah and blaming him for something he forgot or making an issue of this or that shows that your iman is weak! 

You need to love the prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam and to follow his footsteps on how he dealt with such topics in his life.

QUESTION: I’ve a lot of childhood trauma, so in my marriage I get frustrated at small things. I know this is wrong and I’m seeking counselling for it. I can’t look past my husbands humans errors, eg if he comes home late/forgets to do something. Does this anger at him and refusal to accept his mistakes mean I am not believing and accepting Allah’s Qadr?

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QUESTION: We know when Allah intends a thing he says (كن), like the miraculous creation of Prophet Adam and Isa. But is it the same for every other everyday matter? like human conception, deaths, rain, etc.
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QUESTION: In a video you said that we are Muslims, and Kuffar are kuffar because Allah Willed it so. So, Alhamdulillah, Allah made us Muslims but my confusion is, if kuffar are Willed to be kuffar, how are they responsible for their fate or why are they blameworthy? I am just trying to clarify my doubt/confusion, NOT questioning Allah’s decree.