ANSWER:

If you’re not mentally stable as you say, you should not be married yet. 

However, good proposals usually come once in a life time! There is far grater supply than there is demand. 

Many girls around you are looking for good proposals and can’t find any. 

Every day that goes by reduces your chances of marrying someone you want as time makes it more and more difficult as you get older to find someone of your liking. 

Nevertheless, it is your choice at the end of the day. 

QUESTION: My parents are looking for marriage proposals for me, but I am not ready to get married. As a 22-year-old female, I do not feel mentally prepared, and I believe I haven’t accomplished enough in my life yet. I have started hifz classes and am making other positive changes. Is it wrong to ask my parents to pause the marriage process because I am not mentally ready?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage | February 7, 2025 8:15 am
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