Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

It is said that when a person has a fever, his sins are forgiven۔ It is also said that if a believer is bitten by a thorn, sins are forgiven۔ then what about pain in other parts of body like pain in whole body or headache or what about flu ?? are the sins forgiven in these situations also ?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Sins

17 Jan

ANSWER: Yes.

When someone comes into the room, etc. Is it Haram to stand up for him out of respect?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Jan

ANSWER: This is not prohibited but it is not recommended and it is against the sunnah.

My husband who is naturally short tempered blackmails me on going for a second marriage every time I do some mistake (even very little ones) . It really hurts me and I can’t show same love to him. I pray Allah for patience and continue to love him for sake of Allah. Is this type of behavior permissible for men just because Allah had made it halal to have 4 wives?

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Kind Treatment of Spouses

30 Dec

ANSWER: He is sinful for hurting your feelings like this and he is an ignorant imbecile. Abusive people want to depress you or at least to make you say a negative remark or response to what they had said. When you ignore them, not defend yourself and not argue with them, this kills them and […]

Is it permissible or sinful for me to leave a place where they are talking bad or blaming Allah (As those people are elder then me and might feel insulted If I leave but I can hear anything like this as well)

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

27 Dec

ANSWER: You must try to give them dawah about it’s prohibition but if you can’t then try to change the topic and if they still continue, you must immediately leave that place as there’s no obedience or pleasing anyone at the cost of displeasing Allah.

Shaykh what to do when your in a kafir country and you work in a partially mixed environment where there is some mixing and the females sometimes try talking to you asking questions like “what time do you finish” or “how are you” and you feel as if you will be disrespectful if you just ignore completely, also what about muslim women, what to do?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

24 Dec

ANSWER: You must minimize your communication to them to the bare minimum and be as straight as possible with few words without reciprocating with them even if they accuse you of being rude. Lower your gaze and show them lack on interest and do not socialize with them. They will get the message loud and […]

If someone asks me not to say particular thing to anyone, if I don’t say to her that I promise i won’t say it anyone, will it still be considered as promise? Will I be sinful for disclosing it?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners

16 Dec

ANSWER: Yes, you will be sinful for telling it to others as it’s an amanah with you when she said don’t reveal it to anyone.

My question is about The Hadith of the food of Walima in which the rich is invited and poor are not invited. What do we mean by poor, poor relatives or poor people in general.

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: Both! Ones who people are not usually proud to invite and feel ashamed or embarrassed when they come.

It’s very common in desi community to reject a girl or boy based on their color and mock them. Also parents and relatives criticize a child’s dark skin tone and comparing it to a buffalo’s or a crow’s. Is this sinful and is there any punishment for this?

Character and Morals, Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners, Fiqh of Marriage

14 Dec

ANSWER: This is definitely sinful as this is racist! Prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam said that there is no superiority of a white person over a black and vice versa except through piety.