If my father and my husband have different opinions and they give me different suggestions in a situation, whome should I obey? Who has more rights over me?
This is too generic. If it is something not related to any of them, it is your preference to choose what you want as if it is related to how to fix your car!
But if it is related to something that relates to your husband’s rights such as how to wear your hair or to cut it short or leave it, you must only obey your husband in this.