Sir its nowadays a trend in our country Bangladesh ,that many guys doing their long term affair marriage!my few relative also doing this marriage and engesement. Prob is few of my relative talk to me in such way that i hove done so wrong that i hv not done affair! As if its my inability that i couldn’t.. How to response them? I feel so humiliate!!
Why would you feel humiliated for abiding by Allah’s laws? This shows your lack of Iman.
You must be proud of your religion and follow it to the core and be an inspiration for others. It is your duty to tell them that such relationships go against the Quran and Sunnah and it angers Allah!