Sir, my unmarried friend says she thinks she may have broken her hymen due to the secret habit which she developed after an abuse in childhood.Her parents are seeking proposals for her,what is the ruling on concealment of this matter and how to avoid bad consequences? Should the to-husband be informed? How to deal with this matter?
Bleeding before the marriage is normal. Most women break their hymen due to playing sports or riding bicycles etc.
Other girls don’t break the hymen from the first few attempts.
She must repent for the bad habits she had. She must not bring this up and never mention it to anyone or be concerned about it.