You should make new friends who are committed to religion, you can start frequenting the masjid, attend lectures and meet new brothers that follow the deen and make friends with them.

Since I have started practicing Islam, I have lost many of my friends. I still have 2,3 good friends but they are mostly busy. None of my classmates follow Islam strictly; they cheat, lie, backbite etc. So now I don’t go outside and hang out with friends and it has made me very anti social and an introvert. I have lost self-esteem. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? What should I do to gain confidence?

Psychological and Social Problems | November 13, 2015 3:54 am
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Remember when you told me that I will be rewarded for being a one man ummah, yeah.. about that… Now I fear I will be punished for being one man ummah. I don’t feel much support from my _akhi_. There’s so much fitnah! When I go outside, it’s pretty much impossible to not أخطأ. People at school make me mad. The level of _fasad_ in my school is outrageous! Even when I try hard to not أخطأ, I still fall into it. Whether it’s at المدرسة, or سوبر ماركت. Doesn’t matter. The Islamic duties that are incumbent on me are seriously مؤكدا لي. Being a one man ummah is too tough. There’s so much to focus on. All I want is to have khushoo in salah. I’m happy Allah is testing me but I need khushoo. Shaykh, there’s SO much to do. And I fail at pretty much everything. I’ve been trying to get it straight the last 11 months but I failed -as usual. I don’t doubt Allah’s mercy-0 rather, I doubt my ability to be a decent Muslim. It makes me seriously. أقول فقط هذه الاشياء لك.. الغضب في نفسي.