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You must never try to stop him from giving money to his family and try to advise him with good manners and wisdom without nagging him as this will only make him feel more under pressure. 

Try to lure him by smelling and looking appealing for him at all times and create a positive environment for him at home so that he prefers spending time with you, so he realizes that he needs to strike a balance between his own happiness and providing for them.

sheikh.i am married for 6years.My husband has 3brothers out of which 2 works and 1 is jobless.He daily takes their tension,their kids tension.So the main thing is due to tension and he took responsibility of everyone he is not having physical relation with me.I tell him balance both work give me also my Haqq but he say i have lot of work and ignores me and yell at me.what can i do?

Kind Treatment of Spouses | April 25, 2019 4:47 am
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My husband complain so much about me. I know am not perfect and make mistakes but am getting fed up with all d negative comments every day . I cant say anything back, he goes ballistic. How do I remain patient with his complain every single day? If i want to correct he thinks am arguing. Shall I just allow him to think wrongly of me and not say a single word to correct it? I don’t always corret him
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Does Islamic law (sharia law ) allows me to keep both wife’s in same house , but different rooms , as I can’t afford another house , but a separate room is possible. Kindly suggest me the book where I can refer this law.