You should address the Prophet, peace be upon him, who gave us this
directive. Using your own logic is not something recommended specially
when a person does not have knowledge. It is like someone claiming
that men wearing diamonds is prohibited because diamonds are more
expensive than gold.

Sheikh, how is a woman allowed to wash a dead body but not allowed to go to burials or visit graves? Surely washing a body, especially a loved one, is more tramatic/emotional than visiting a grave. Women are not complete babies and there are many who can handle visiting graves especially if they know the rules in Islam of not being allowed to wail or create a shrine at the grave.

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