Keep the relation but be distant and do not put everything on your heart. Pray for them instead! If you don’t allow what they do to penetrate your heart and you keep your calm, this kills them and makes them furious as they are anticipating that you become angry or at least upset.

My question is regarding inlaws,my mother in law and sis in law does everything possible to upset me when I go back home and they give lots of taunts when I talk to them and at the end of the day they say they did no harm to me and always gossips about Me to every1,they keep complaining about me to my husband, Now I’m not talking to them to avoid Any kind of problem. pls help

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | May 7, 2017 3:38 am
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Alhamdulillah my mother in law is causing alot of problems for me. Please i want to know what rights she has when it comes to our children. She always gets angry because i dont like my 3 year old daughter to be eating sweets all the time. Does she have rights to be able to do whatever she wants when it comes to our children even if i dont agree to it?
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I have this uneasy and awkward feeling towards my inlaws and sometimes i feel them stepping on their limitations. What are their rights and restrictions to me and my husband. What are my obligations to them as my inlaws. Please give me some advise for me to establish a good relationship with them.