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You should fear Allah as you are ungrateful and have low Iman, despite your prayers and Quran! How dare you object to Allah’s decree like this? Didn’t you compare yourself with the thousands of barren women? Why don’t you look at those who were tested with children with special needs? Would you like a son who is disobedient and evil who would turn your life into a living misery or a righteous practicing girl? 

My problem is im pregnant with my daughter this time and i have a son but i again wanted a son i know girls are Allahs rahma i know Prophet had daughters and everything but still i cried and asked Allah why you didn’t give me a son then i will console myself with namaz and quran i also pray regularly i fear Allah i asked for his forgiveness but still i urge it to be a son

Divine Will and Decree | August 17, 2019 4:40 am
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islamqa says Some salaf used to ask in their prayers for everything, even salt for their dough & food for sheep. In al-Israa’eeliyyaat it is narrated Moosa said: O Lord, I have some worldly needs but I feel too shy to ask You. He said: Ask Me even for the salt for your dough & food for yourdonkey.So i would like to know does this mean person should not work and just sit and make dua for salt etc?
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I recently suffered a traumatic miscarriage at 5 and a half months to the point I have nightmares and flashbacks. I often cry for my child and have been blamed for causing the miscarriage although the doctors have said it is because of an infection that couldn’t be detected. Is there anything in the Quran or sunnah that will comfort me?