This is very selfish of you. You cannot blame them for loving their grandchildren who are living with them 24/7.

You must not give so much weight to such an issue. It will only cause friction between you and your parents and would not make them act naturally with you and your families.

My parents owns a house and one of my brothers live with them. My brother has three children whom my parents give obvious preference in terms of love and gifts. We are four sisters and we all feel badly that our children have least importance apparently even when we visit their house. My sisters and me love and care our parents too much but we feel sad about it. Ruling?

Fiqh of the family | May 25, 2017 3:11 am
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sir , when parents ask to do stuffs like sometimes when we spend time on phone without studying and parents ask to study we dont pay much heed to it , oh they ask for help or to do something like house works we dont do it out of ignorance or delay it , will these actions make Allah’s curse fall upon us..??
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sheikh my fathr has 2 wife’s 1 her relative n my mothr but he fought with my mother n they haven’t talked since august 2016 he lives in anothr city n we live in anothr I talkd 2 him on cel but now since 3 weeks he is not answering my cals my mother she backbites my fathr n he does the same he also fought with his secnd wife n nw livng alone as a daughter wht shuld I do?m 17 i need them 2gether