…and that hurts us. We don’t want to settle anything between  them anymore for this reason. When we try to talk to our father, he gets  upset and when we try to talk to our mother, she gets upset with us. I wanted  to ask that only for the reason that they both get upset with us, we have  stopped settling things between them. And there is one more thing which I  need to ask. I get to either live with my father or my mother. Whom do you  think I should live with? I know my mother has more right on me than my  father but will that be alright? As I will have to chose between both of them  as this is their demand. I will not completely cut off from the other parent  but still I think that the parent with whom I will not be living with, will  be unhappy and stressed about my decision. What do you suggest for me in the  light of religion?
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