ANSWER:
You should not obey her or anyone else in disobeying Allah.

You should still show respect and obey her in every worldly thing that is halal but you must never obey her in these innovations or anything that goes against the correct Islam, no matter what.

My parents are forcing me to celebrate mawlid everyday and is asking me to recite a durood which contains shirk. I refused but my mother is emotionally blackmailing me and cursing me and telling me you must obey me or else you will be sinful. She is scared that I have become Mujahid (sect in India). What should I do?

Fiqh of the family | November 27, 2017 3:16 pm
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I would just like to ask regarding the dayooth. i am the youngest in my family and my sisters are all married and they do not wear hijab. One of them says that she cannot wear it in this day and age becuase of society and i cannot physically force her to do so. she rejects it. will i be sinful for this and they are all married it is my responsibility or their husbands?
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Since I was young I used to see my mum getting abused from her older son happened many times years. can’t look at my brothers face I can’t even seat next to him, I try forgiving him. Can I keep distance from this person I tried so much but the hate doesn’t go from my heart Allah got him know his losing it and yet he still hasn’t changed even tried stoping us going Hajj but he failed