My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother. So I started to talk with the only person who sided with me(it was a man) things with him got a bit personal,it shouldn’t have. My husband found out and he seemed he forgave me. Then I wanted to visit my family here in the US. He said he will come and bring the kids. So far I been here 5 months. I didn’t have money and I asked him for money and he would not support me. Now, he tells me that he don’t want me any more,but I don’t want the divorce. I asked him to send me money so I can come back with my children, or if he don’t want me to let me have 1 of his three house to live with the children and still he says no. I am here in the US. I was wearing the hijab but they have treat me like a terrorist,so I took it off. Please help
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You have wronged yourself by having this affair with this man.

All what is happening to you now is a punishment for what you had done.

Your husband is a cruel and unfair person. He didn’t treat you right but this doesn’t give you the right to cheat on him. It appears that he doesn’t want you anymore and he also doesn’t want to send the kids to you.

Your only hope is to be with Allah and not to disobey him by taking off your Hijab.

You have to go back to Allah and seek His help in getting your life back again.

I am afraid that I don’t have anything more to add to that except that life is just a test and not all of us make it. Try to be one of those who succeed in making it.

May Allah guide your heart to the right path.

My husband constantly hit me,and called me bad things and in front of the kids.We had his brother whom is a Shaikh try and resolve our problems but he always sided with his brother.