Men have desires and wives must fulfill their needs, one important reason to get married is this desire, but sometimes men do not know how to express their feelings, you can talk to him politely and with love how you want him to treat you, be patient and in sha Allah he will be changed by time.
It is not permissible to refuse having intercourse with him. The Angels curse you the whole night until morning for refusing him!

My husband behave is not as much as good with me like our sahaba and nabiz s.a.w treat their wifes love care .. he was involve with girls after nikah now i feel he only want my body not soul. If i refuse to intimate he completly cut off with me i take care of him so much but sometime i feel bad and dont share bed with him . He even not understand my feelings

Kind Treatment of Spouses | September 15, 2017 8:33 pm
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I was labelled as a bad son for supporting my wife in front of my parents and siblings. I stay away from my home and in my homeland there was lots of misunderstanding raised between my wife and mother, thus I asked her to go and stay in her mother’s place to avoid more misunderstanding because I would lose any one of them. Did I do anything wrong Shaikh?
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Sheikh i got married recently and my wife is showing little interest in islam although she prays she delays her prayers whenever i put on a lecture on islam or try to make her listen to the quran with its translation she shows little or no interest i have been having problems with depression beccuase of this what should i do.