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Don’t keep nagging, just keep him updated whenever you are accused and have patience.
Ignore what your in laws are saying and explain to them that your parents are not obliged to provide for their daughter and her husband. 

my husband and his brother supports my husband’s parents financially. iam also working. my mother in law and sister in law indirectly accuses my parents in that they are not helping me and my husband financially.when I keep telling this to my husband he gets angry.What should I do?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | December 6, 2017 5:05 pm
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My mother in law is a widow and my husband is her only son. it is very stressful and mentally exhausting to stay with her.she is generally a person who notes people and critises and labels them often.she does it even more with me. she is also my aunt and we have common relatives.it is very hurtful that my own relatives have started thinking badly of me. she picks on me all the time.how do i deal?
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Sheikh,is it permissible for the husband to ask his wife to help with the household chores and do cooking for his parents as they are old and sick? can she disobey him in this?(she doesn’t have doesn’t have children yet) the husband can’t do cooking&cleaning for his parents as he’s at work,should she obey him?