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He is sinful for severing ties with his family but you will also be sinful if you do the same thing. You must keep on contacting him while upholding ties of kinship with him as Allah azza wa jal mandates this upon you.  You cannot claim to love her child more than she does. So, it is not recommended to advise him about his wife like this as this would make her hate you. Leave his wife out of your discussions and never mention her at all. 

My brother isn’t talking to me my sisters n my parents because we advice him abt his wife bad behavious(always sleeping not looking after their child not cooking feeding her). He said he will protect her as she is his wife n stopped talking to us.They r having different celebrations at home but we aren’t been invited. My parents n we feel sad and when we try to advice he shouts at us for his wife. Now we have stopped talking to him because we don’t won’t any fight. What ur advice abt this?

Fiqh of the family | December 27, 2017 2:06 am
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I have parents who follow religion but Treat their own children unfairly. As Allah is my witness, despite of having a difficult childhood, I forgave my parents because they have rights on me. I tried to be there for them to the best of my capabilities but I feel that my other siblings always get more attention & love than me. There’s no talking to my parents about how I feel i tried but no use.
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My father’s parents didn’t divide the property according to sharia . After his father’s death the brothers n sisters took hold of all property n didn’t give him a single penny . Now should my father meet them and keep relation ship with them , although they hurt us by depriving us of our share in property . Pls explain in detail.