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It is not permissible to be in the presence of alcohol or put yourself in situations where you know free mixing would occur. 

Allah mandates upon you to uphold ties of kinship with your family and the mahrams in your family. You must advise them with good manners, wisdom, and diplomacy and call them to Islam without jeopardizing your own Islam. 

You need to move out and get your own place! You must surround yourself with practicing Muslims who would check up on you often and visit your family when you know there will be no alcohol or free mixing.

I’ve been Muslim for 5 years and struggled with my family. They’re Christian so seeing them with falling in sins is impossible. From girls kissing me to alcohol being served at my table to struggling to pray I’ve had it all. If I cut my family or just do the sins I’m a bad Muslim but when i try to avoid the sins I fail or get in fights. What to do? I’m doomed matter wh

Dealings and Attitudes with Relatives | January 30, 2019 7:53 am
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If we have brother and sisters who we KNOW they dont pray OUT OF LAZINESS. Is it fard upon us to boycott them? Or can we still hang out with them and talk. Sadly MANY peoplr around us from freinds and family dont pray. They would never drink alcohol or zina etc because its haraam but everyone seems sooooo leniet when it comes to prayer.
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As we are not allowed to cut ties with relatives but what to do of those relatives who create fights and rift amongst each other? The more we keep in touch the more problems create.