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You are not obliged to cook for your brother in law as this is his wife’s job. Likewise, it is not her job to cook for your husband in your absence as you are responsible for looking after your husband and children. 

You must ask your husband for a separate accommodation as this is your right in Islam so that you would not have to wear the hijab in your own home 24/7.

I started to cover my head in front of male members in my in-laws home . But my brother in law dsn’t care, and enters at sudden, I try to cover it immediately? How can I handle it? If Iam sinful? 2ndly his wife says I should cook for him when she is not at home as she cooks for my husband?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | December 18, 2019 7:19 am
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Me and my spouse love each other too much. We’ve a son and I’m preg with our second one alhamdullilah but my inlaws are very cruel , they don’t let me and my spouse meet. His Parents don’t let me in nor they let him come to me. They’ve warned him if he meets me they won’t let him in again. His sisters are very jealous of us and use very bad language on me all the time.
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Whenever i have to go anywhere to hospital or to buy anything or in any emergency if my husband is busy he told me to go with my brother in law but i dont want to go with him but my husband forces me to go with him is it permissible to go?