ANSWER:
You are asking me to give you a fatwa of depriving you to go to heaven through the middle gate, which is your father.
You must be kind, gentle, respectful and humble with your father no matter what. If he has wronged you, he will be answerable before Allah and you would go straight to hell if you are disobedient to your parents.
Don’t miss this opportunity of serving him and gaining Paradise through him.