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You don’t have the right to control other people. She can gift it to whoever she wants HOWEVER she wants and being jealous is sinful as you are being ungrateful of Allah’s endless favors upon you. You must repent to Allah while showing deep remorse and sincerity and ask Allah to bless her in it. Having said this, she is wrong in breaking other people’s hearts if she was aware of it!

I have a wealthy aunt who gives expensive gifts like gold jewellery and cellphones to my sister in presence of other siblings. While I know she can gift whatever she wants to whoever she wants, isn’t it my right that she should at least do it privately? Due to this, I sometimes become jealous and cry because my parents cannot afford presents like that for rest of us.

Etiquette, Morals and Heart-Softeners | June 17, 2019 2:52 am
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Allah has blessed me in the ways I deserve Alhamdullillah. However I dont believe this is the ultimate happiness. I prefer spending my time in ibadah reading Quran etc.. But when I do this people presume I am suffering in life or not as happy. And they are always trying to make me feel jealous by showing off about their life to a point i can’t take it anymore. I can’t even ignore them.
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I wonder why every time I go somewhere or when I go to work, I change as a person. I start to almost act like them, think like them, behave like them. My iman slowly disappears and it pains me when that happens. Is it because I live in a kafir country and work with kafirs and see them all the time almost? Please help me.