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You can forgive her by thinking that Allah’s mercy is far beyond anyone in this world and He is the Most Forgiving. So in order to achieve Allah’s mercy, we should be forgiving enough to anyone who does bad to us so that we gain Allah’s forgiveness for our sins.

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I have a deep rooted grudge with my mother in law of 15 years.I have always felt that I was wronged by her and have retaliated badly in response.Adding insult to injury is my husband’s biased attitude to his family completely sidelining me.Now I want to let go and restrain my tongue and have a forgiving heart for Allah’s sake.How do I do it?

Dealings and Attitudes with In-Laws | January 20, 2018 5:25 am
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My motherinlaw is bing vry aggressive and vile towards me, I’m not allowd to sit with the family eat with the family n also cook for my husband or myself. She says I can’t eat the food she makes when she sleeps I go to kitchen to eat.She keeps calin me very hurtful names and brings my father and family into it,I only leave my room for work,husband says he won’t move out! What cn I do
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ya shaykh if i dont obey my husband by agreeing to join his gathering with his cousin,cousins mother and his cousins wife at my house , he got extremely upset and went on a rant that i am not being cordial to his family. He even was about to smash something of mine out of anger. Please advise.