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Color and beauty is just skin deep and what really matters is if he’s a practicing Muslim who provides for you and the kids. 

You must be grateful to Allah that you’re married, there are plenty of women out there crying to get married and would give anything to be in your shoes and you’re here being ungrateful to Allah and sad about what He decreed upon you. Imagine how you would feel if Allah tested you with a disease that changes the color of your skin and he resented it and couldn’t stay with you like this!

I am married and have 2 kidz.the problem i face is my husband is dark and because of it i can’t love him from the depth of my heart eventhough i dont show it out and remain as a good wife.most of the time i feel sad.please guide me

Kind Treatment of Spouses | August 7, 2019 3:30 am
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When we say, a wife is not obliged to serve her parents-in-law, they say, it becomes obligatory if the husband commands to do so. Because it is obligatory to obey husband’s command. Is it true? If it is, then every husband will command like this and will make it obligatory upon women.
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is it considered as fardh for a mother to do any work related to the kids- for example taking them to the doctor appointment. I stay at home n I homeschool my daughter n take care of the house n my toddler. Is it a must for me to outside work for them too? My husband said he cannot take time off for these as he has booked all his vacation for family visit abroad.